I'm A Tomboy, And No One Wants To Date Me

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    This is Jo. Actually, her name is Josephine, but you wouldn’t be able to imagine a person less suitable to be called Josephine. She’s a tomboy, and she’s proud of it. However, life as a tomboy is not as amusing as you might imagine. She’s faced a lot of problems, and she wants to tell you about them.
    Jo had trouble communicating with other girls right from her early childhood. She remembers one time when a large group of children had gathered in one place for a party or something, and her mom gently pushed her towards the other girls and said, “go play with the dolls, make friends with someone!” She diligently started moving dolls here and there and listening to boring talk about girly problems, but all the while she kept looking at the boys, who were playing something thrilling, laughing and doing their boyish stuff. She was so envious that at some point she just silently stood up and joined them. That was the moment when the fun started for her.
    Things didn’t improve as the years went by. Jo was always attracted to the world of boys, and all of her friends were boys as well. She felt at ease when she talked to them, and felt that she understood their problems and their way of thinking better. Whereas when she was around girls, she was totally clueless. Their problems were hard for her to follow, especially when they complained about boys.
    Jo had to adapt her looks to her lifestyle as well. When she went out with her friends, they always did something active, like skateboarding or exploring abandoned buildings or climbing trees. For these kinds of things, you need to dress in a practical way. She found out that jeans and hoodies are much more comfortable in this respect than typical girls’ clothes, which she had always hated in any case. And that is how she has dressed her whole life. For Jo, it was always a tragedy when they made some formal visit and she needed to dress “properly”, as people would call it. A cute dress, shiny shoes, a neat hairdo… ugh. As you can probably imagine, phrases like “wear skirts, be more feminine, you’re a girl” were the things she kept hearing time and again, until at one point her parents just gave up.
    It wasn’t that Jo felt she was ugly or anything, and that being a tomboy was her way of gaining confidence. She actually thinks she’s quite cute, and when she’s forced to be a girly girl she looks no worse than her peers. For her, being a tomboy is a lifestyle, and she’s happy with that. The problem was that some time ago, she’d noticed that her friends had started dating.
    One of the things that people were often mistaken about was the belief that because Jo was a tomboy, she must be gay. But she’s actually attracted to boys, not girls. Ironically, she actually gets a lot of backtalking from girls who say that she’s just trying to get attention from all the boys around her. She’s never taken this seriously, because she’s never had THAT kind of attention from the boys. Which is actually the core of her problem.
    Yes, she’s seeking her first romance. She has lots of boys around her. So what’s the problem, you might ask. The problem is that they don’t really see her as a girl! They know she’s a girl, of course, but they don’t want to date her, because who would date a bro? Once, there was a boy she liked, and she thought it would be wise to approach him and ask if he wanted to go out with her. And guess what - he just laughed at her! He wasn’t mean or anything, it was more something like “Sorry bro, I don’t see you as a GIRL”. Seeing the look on her face, he corrected himself: “I mean, THAT kind of a girl”. Oh thanks, now that’s much better!
    This was the first time when being a tomboy had a negative effect on her life. She even tried to put on make up and a dress, but felt really weird and the boys just looked at her strange as well. She gave up and lost hope. It seemed like it was a price that she had to pay to keep the comfortable and amusing life of a tomboy. She became a bit melancholic looking at all those happy couples, and felt that something was missing from her life for the first time.
    One day she was invited out to go skateboarding, but she wasn’t in the mood so she just sat there, watching her friends and thinking her sad thoughts. One of her oldest friends soon came over to sit with her and asked why she was so sad. She didn’t want to lie, so she explained everything as it really was - that no one wanted to date her because no one considered her a potential girlfriend. “Don’t cry”, he said, “I’ll go on a date with you!” She refused out self-respect. “I don’t need charity”, she said. Suddenly, he became very serious and said that he really wanted to. And so she accepted. Accidentally, she had made the same mistake all her friends had made with her - she hadn’t considered his feelings, because you don’t go on dates with buddies. Well, she was mistaken.
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daliaortega85
daliaortega85

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Betty Thurman
Betty Thurman

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6 days ago
Juan Sanchez
Juan Sanchez

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6 days ago
Niina The Animr Lover
Niina The Animr Lover

I sometime wake up feeling like a boy and sometimes a girl so I act like a boy when I go to school and I act like a girl on the weekends but mostly I am boyish I HATE pink and purple I HATE dresses,skirts and so on I always wear jeans and boyish clothes to school

37 minutes ago
- XY -
- XY -

Actually im a little boyish but not a tomboy and my crush actually likes me back because of that he said when i was getting bullied "HEY!LEAVE HER ALONE shes perfect for what she is!" we are now dating for almost ½Year😊

43 minutes ago
Алекс ПОПОВ
Алекс ПОПОВ

Good vokal

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Daeniell Alagos
Daeniell Alagos

Saem. I wear all black but make my bedroom filled with pink and adorable things. Me and my boyfriend look a lot alike already after years of being together. At first glance, you'll see a gay couple. Short hair, all black clothes. Except he's just buffer of course cause that's biology. He was there before I cut my hair tho.

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Lazy Eagle
Lazy Eagle

. Слышь

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Lara Rockman
Lara Rockman

Hey I’m a Tom boy

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Itz_Juris
Itz_Juris

Im only a tomboy because i HATE SKIRTS!!!!

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Itz_Juris
Itz_Juris

Im a tomboy too

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Yang's Arm
Yang's Arm

this so so relateable. only thing is i'm kinda gay

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Jazz Mine
Jazz Mine

Only someone who truly loves you won't judge who you are

3 hours ago
Elvis Presley
Elvis Presley

Bruh on Kentucky tomboys is where it's at. Sweaty grungy sex. Having a gal around who understands. Likes video games and fast trucks. Best thing a man can ask for if you ask me.

3 hours ago
Redwolf
Redwolf

I was like so are you a girl, a guy or a Trans? I didn't know sry

3 hours ago
BamIsMyName
BamIsMyName

Im a guy and most of my friends are girls, a lot of them want to date me because I have no problem talking to girls and alot of them know me well cause we're friends. So I am like the opposite of this girl.

4 hours ago
Career Choises
Career Choises

So me

4 hours ago
Thug Beanie
Thug Beanie

Everyone likes tomboys now

4 hours ago
Suga's hoe
Suga's hoe

I understand you, being a Tomboy is hard.. And confusing too.

4 hours ago
Charisk Dreemur
Charisk Dreemur

I am also a tomboy and relate to some of these things

4 hours ago
H H
H H

iM nOt lIkE oThEr gIrLs

5 hours ago
Olivia Waite
Olivia Waite

Omg I can so relate

5 hours ago
Akira RBLX
Akira RBLX

A lot of girls dress aesthetic, not a lot dress in dresses and skirts anymore if it’s not uniform.

5 hours ago
Lisa Amaro
Lisa Amaro

I don't like girly things but don't dress like boy. Like if relatable💖

5 hours ago
Jeido Chan
Jeido Chan

I relate to this so much. I just don’t understand girls and I am a girl. When I dress all nice I feel so exposed and miss my legs hoodie and jeans. I be seeing couples everywhere and I’m just sad and say to myself I don’t need someone right now but is continuously reminded. Most of my friends are guys and I have like 5 friends that are girls and I barley talk to them. The weird part is.. I know when one of my friends like me, they make it so obvious. I just turn them down cause I just don’t see them like that. I’m not lesbian or bi. I just think I don’t want to get hurt again.

5 hours ago
Hopeful Me
Hopeful Me

I feel your probem. I'm a lesbian and there's basically 2-3 people in my school I can date. 2 of which are dating.

6 hours ago
roses ocean
roses ocean

i agreee

7 hours ago
Luke Skywalker
Luke Skywalker

Basically my life

7 hours ago
Xx_Lil_Alex_Boi _xX
Xx_Lil_Alex_Boi _xX

WE HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON!!! I WISH I CAN BE BEST FRIENDS WITH YOUU

7 hours ago
Koko Holman
Koko Holman

God i know exactly what shes talking about!!!

7 hours ago
Dinoloverblaze292 Rar girl
Dinoloverblaze292 Rar girl

I dont like girl clothes i even dressed my roblox avator like a boy i think ( i am happy im a girl but i dont like girly things)

7 hours ago
TriTriChan Lol
TriTriChan Lol

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8 hours ago
Denise McNiven Booth
Denise McNiven Booth

No offence and I can't tell you who you are but...it's sounds more like your transgender.

8 hours ago
Rashawn king
Rashawn king

I would date you tom boys make great girlfriends

9 hours ago
FwuffyBun
FwuffyBun

Yeah and then the only way you get dates is when someone dares them to ask you out

9 hours ago
Chloe Hall
Chloe Hall

I’m a tomboy. Getting bullied is an everyday thing. I only have guy friends. I get called so many things and i just say whatever or walk away.

9 hours ago
Oskar Philipsen
Oskar Philipsen

im a boy but some Boys are just not like me and im a child and i hate fortnite and football and you know just most boy things and i have 3 sisters and i really love when im with Them and i have bene collecting some more like stuff like hachimals and beeny boos and littlest PET shop and if i gotta be onest i only have collected 2 diffrent boy things and plus im not playing with boys that Much and i have a pretty High Voice when im singing and not to say that you guys arent good but i actully Think im pretty good Well thats my Teeny tiny story 😊

9 hours ago
Pinguimamericano
Pinguimamericano

loL wuT

9 hours ago
Stinky Cheese000
Stinky Cheese000

Why is there a bandage on her face

9 hours ago
Angie Ramirez
Angie Ramirez

Im kinda a tomboy i don’t like girly things i mostly like boy things

9 hours ago
Moe Tube
Moe Tube

Watch my video please

10 hours ago
Tnee Inez
Tnee Inez

Stay strong it's fine the right boy is always there and btw it can relate

10 hours ago
S.S.W Nation
S.S.W Nation

Boy: *sorry bro I just dont see you as a girl* Me: *What is she? A pole?*

10 hours ago
Little Muffin Games
Little Muffin Games

Man these tiktok ads

10 hours ago
Fresh_Kawaii Potatoe
Fresh_Kawaii Potatoe

Same

10 hours ago
Gisele Yang
Gisele Yang

Thank you for doing this I think video

10 hours ago
Prajalrai
Prajalrai

There are girly boy too, very feminine but if you don't have a stick between your legs then you will be alright.

11 hours ago
Kaci Edwards
Kaci Edwards

Hi I'm a tomboy and only have one firends but I don't mind

11 hours ago
Marcela_Games
Marcela_Games

I rly like your video, and you inspired me. BUT Am I the only feeling better without dating or have any boyfriend? xD

11 hours ago
im katrina
im katrina

i wear shorts,jeans,shirt and jacket.

12 hours ago
MAD CHOCOLATE
MAD CHOCOLATE

U don't need a boyfriend im a tom boy too

12 hours ago
Dancing Dounuts
Dancing Dounuts

But at my school..., Tomboys are the ones EVERYONE Wants to date

12 hours ago
Dancing Dounuts
Dancing Dounuts

DUDE iM A TOMBoY AND MY NAME IS JOSEPHINE

12 hours ago
Ayang Maria
Ayang Maria

I love play boys thing

13 hours ago
Ayang Maria
Ayang Maria

And i hate mah skirt

13 hours ago
Luna Gacha
Luna Gacha

Great story as always! Btw my name is Josaphine

13 hours ago
Кот Матроскин
Кот Матроскин

Русские

13 hours ago
Pink Purple Panda
Pink Purple Panda

I'm definitely not a girly girl but I'm not a big tomboy. I do LOVE wearing hoodies and trackies, but sometimes I want to dress up in a cute little dress and some flats. I love Star Wars, Pirates Of The Caribbean and other stuff like that. I prefer to hang out with boys and I understand both boys and girls.

14 hours ago
the hacker
the hacker

That's so sad I am a male and dating a tomboy she is gorgeous and I love her vary much

14 hours ago
McPooper Scooper
McPooper Scooper

I can relate so hard, it hurts my soul.

15 hours ago
OPgamerRyan
OPgamerRyan

My friend is a tomboy

16 hours ago
Blank L
Blank L

Use tinder 🤷‍♂️

17 hours ago
Dom on fire
Dom on fire

I LIVE OFF OF JEANS AND HOODIES

18 hours ago
Rayhana Awis A Stay
Rayhana Awis A Stay

Wait.... So I'm a Tomboy?

18 hours ago
Kristiqn Kivulov
Kristiqn Kivulov

Do you have penis or vagina ?? WTF ?

18 hours ago
Prince Gumball
Prince Gumball

I can relate to this

18 hours ago
Nofoaiga Sualevai
Nofoaiga Sualevai

I

18 hours ago
VIPkittenz
VIPkittenz

I’m tomboy too

19 hours ago
Kahlene Dorris
Kahlene Dorris

But I do have a boyfriend that last be me for who I am

19 hours ago
Kahlene Dorris
Kahlene Dorris

Same I'm a Tomboy and I only have one girl best friend and like 100000000 boy Best friend

19 hours ago
Vloging with Katie and friends
Vloging with Katie and friends

i'm a Tomboy and i'm hated for it....

20 hours ago
Khanh Tran Mai Nguyen (Moon)
Khanh Tran Mai Nguyen (Moon)

Really some body would like me and what if I don’t like them

21 hour ago
Kyra Ottey
Kyra Ottey

I’m not a girly girl it’s just weird to wear dresses like what the hell

22 hours ago
Draw with Catachude
Draw with Catachude

Tomboy

23 hours ago
PlayingGamer 456
PlayingGamer 456

im a tomboy but i dont care what people say to me

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Kiwi Tree
Kiwi Tree

same... i just look werid with girls clothed

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draggon 898
draggon 898

Actually is lesbian

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Lunix_ChocoPop *
Lunix_ChocoPop *

Same..Same.. I act Girlish But I plaued with mostly boys! But when the *GIRLS* saw me laughing with the boys and I can clearly hear them and saying "She's laughing with them? Huh I thought she was more of a gentle call type" And by the way she said it kinda sassy and mean you see I'm more quiet and calm but when the girls talk and joke I didn't get it at all It Wasn't Funny at all they were talking Bts every single time! (No offense Bts Fans) But The Boys Clearly has their clear funny jokes that you van hear it clearly and understand it! I'm a Normal Peep still right? 😅

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Laurita JK
Laurita JK

This video is to cute i really liked! ❤️

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sherm thabsh
sherm thabsh

who else is bothered by that bandage? 😂😂😂😂

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HNRichard
HNRichard

Dangg, good for you to finally have someone you can love and be loved. I also have tomboy friends, they’re really fun to be with, Plus she’s hella cute too. But silly me, always evading my feelings for her because of our friendship. She ended up dating another guy :/ *sigh

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Alhamrani Alhamrani
Alhamrani Alhamrani

I’m a tomboy too but I don’t get bullied by girls and yeah

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Khan
Khan

I think tomboys are way better girlfriends much more you can do

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Josephine Mitchell
Josephine Mitchell

My name is Josephine as well, i go by Josie

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Idkgachastuff
Idkgachastuff

When I was buying Christmas clothes and my mom put up a skirt and said “hey! Wear this” I gave her a disgusting look and said “ew.” We laughed and my mom brought me to the boy section XD “since you don’t want to wear girl clothes, wear boy clothes.” I ended up getting a boy hoodie. XD

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Toni Toni
Toni Toni

Im a tomboy and ive had some boyfriends and they have all broke up with me bc im not a girly girl

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Mehek Niwas
Mehek Niwas

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

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Meowkenna :D
Meowkenna :D

Fellow tomboiz?

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Mitzi ‘n’ Figs Channel
Mitzi ‘n’ Figs Channel

Im a girl and i HATE dresses, i hated them since i was a baby. I dress in hoodies and sweatpants cause i hate jeans. I love sports and i was better at kickball and track than all the boys in my school. My best friends are girls but i have lots of friends that are boy too. Though i act more like a boy i still look like a girl. I dont really like the idea of dating someone, though i can clearly tell some of my friends that are boys like me. I dont know the point of this comment. Im a tomboy, but i dont look like it.

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Sophie Flec
Sophie Flec

I'm a tomboy to tomboys ruel

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Valeria Ugalde
Valeria Ugalde

👽👽👽👽👽👽👽👽👽

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Frederick Henderson
Frederick Henderson

Im one two and im 13 ben one since i was three people and my family says im gay but im not i lime boy's but lllloooovveee girls so yeah

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Suqar The cat
Suqar The cat

I am a girly girl in 2018...

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Alma Diaz
Alma Diaz

I am a tomboy. I am not ashamed of it (Why would I be?). My mom on the other hand, doesn’t like how I dress. She says “You should wear clothes like that” or “you look like a boy!” I usually just ignore it. I only hang out with one girl at my school (she is also a tomboy) the rest are boys. I like hanging out with boys because for ME, they are less dramatic than the girls I used to hang out with. That’s it. Nothing else, just a comment. K. Bye.

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Arm Ore
Arm Ore

Holy hell!, I would love to have a tomboy girlfriend. Actually a-cup also really ideal for me. I know it sounds stupid. Like hey "why don't I just get a guy" but I'm not into guys. And it's such a shame that there's girls out there that are a cups that think that big boobs matter.

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Hannah Raleigh
Hannah Raleigh

Probably the only story I can relate to

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the ice dragon wolf
the ice dragon wolf

I love bottle flipping like Boy's

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the ice dragon wolf
the ice dragon wolf

and I'm a girl

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the ice dragon wolf
the ice dragon wolf

I'm one to I'm a tomboy to my favourite color is red and I have lot of friend that are boy's 😃😄😊

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the ice dragon wolf
the ice dragon wolf

and I'm a girl

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anime is bae
anime is bae

I'm girly/tom boy

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gangstaa.meria breezy
gangstaa.meria breezy

This is relatable to me but ppl wanna date me though 💘

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Person Who
Person Who

At my school if u were a tomboy u were popular and boys had a crush on u

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jem's good life
jem's good life

Same I look girly but all the boys now I'm a tomboy but there is like no one of the boys like me

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Emma Smith
Emma Smith

Same but I'm a goth tomboy

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